Bret
Meets
Bel
Step by step, online Dating for marriage.
Finding the one meant for you is a treasure that many will never find, or mess it up before love has a chance
The online dating world has opened up the opportunity to access every corner of the world and its people and has lead to many finding that one.
There is no greater gift than love.
We were in love with A dream of finding each other.
So we each went on a search that spanned the globe. We persevered through the let downs and negotiated the on line swamps the catfish and on through the jungle, Lions, Tigers and Bears Oh my. Actually it was Sharks Plenty of Sharks we were separated by 6,000 miles of ocean. But finally we found a safe place. A online site called Cherry Blossom where we found each other. It was 2010
We are all individuals with different strength’s and weaknesses’ and different levels of understanding.
This will be a love story told from our perspective, formed from our experience’s.
We Pray that our story may help others in there pursuit of Love.
For the sake of Love.
In a world with no shortage of entities that want to control others.
And to a varying degree people who want or think they need to be controlled.
We are self governing! And do not do well with being told what to do. And take offence very quickly to profiteers in all there forms trying to take advantage for financial gain.
We can first hand understand impoverished individuals trying to better there circumstances. And stand solely on the principals of truth and honesty, when it comes to this very real issue.
We understand need, what we can not accept is chosen untruth by anyone or any entity. Especially when it is the professionaly untruthful exploitation of the emotion of love .
Our advice is take the responsibility of being self reliant.
Take the time to find a non proprietary site. Do not get lured in by pictures and staged profiles.
Do not get attached to someone, where you must pay to communicate. Someone who is personally hidden from you behind a vale, that you must pay to comunicate and there is no other way.
These types of sites will promise to do all the policing work for you to keep you safe. When really it is they who are the untruthful profiteers, hopeing to get you hooked on love. Then use the fear of heart break and separation to drain your every resource.
You are fully capable of doing this without them if they are in-between you and yours pilfering your money. Just say NO, go elsewhere better yet do not even start down this road.
It will cost you dearly, if you have to answer the question yes you met through a marriage broker.
Step #1
Find a dating site that charges for membership only. Normally the dues are very affordable. They make there profit legitimately through advertisement.
Research as normal online. Take your time and explore the sites before the profiles, there are many sites with differing services.
There are many sites that allow you to be self governing and do not stand in the middle or stop you from progressing to communication or even contact without them.
The key word here is – Self Governing.
You must take responsibility for yourself. Police yourself do what is right, because it is the right thing to do.
These sites normally have some type of legitimacy filters in place to remove known illegitimate entity’s. But you must protect yourself.
If it is too good to be true then it is. If it feels wrong then it is.
Do not fall victim to lies and deceit what you will find is that the money is the least of your loss, It is the heart break that is the true loss.
Step #2 Finding the one.
We are here to help, ask your questions!